There's another shape of the elitebook 8460p motherboard. This may be your type because it matches the illustration on your HP manual but this doesn't have the RTC battery cradle. The battery connects to the mobo via wires, as shown below. You may need to look for this type of the battery near the chipset and RAM sockets.
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