I have a similar problem, but maybe not the same. My system doesn't hang EVERY time, just 1-2x/week.
Try installing a Chrome or Microsoft Remote Desktop app on your phone. I discovered I could remote in and see the desktop -- the system wasn't entirely hung. But it didn't respond very well to mouse clicks, and I never managed to successfully get it to do a clean shutdown.
Microsoft Remote Desktop requires Win10 Pro, or you won't have the RD server component. Chrome's remote tool is probably your best bet, and I found it worked better than MS RD anyway.